If we look at how humans learn, it all comes from imitation and ideation, reprogramming if you will. One set of learnings replaces another throughout our entire lives, shaping every part of us. In power dynamics it is no different. There is a nuance in BDSM that the spaces W/we each inhabit, whether that is bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, and/or masochism are not random occurrences. Those all come into play when we think about how BDSM, HypnoFemdom, and Findom were all coined with the positioning of Women reclaiming sovereignty over men and how the reality is that a lot of men benefit from exploiting the very women they say they serve and admire and its bigger meanings in society.

All of these issues don’t start in adulthood but they need reprogramming in order to be resolved

Directionless men are created during childhood.

Let’s take it back there, to childhood. That space where mommy is (usually in most cases) the woman a boy first admires. She becomes the epitome of how a boy treats, sees, conceptualizes, and understands Women while other close Female family members become secondary idealizations. The distribution of labor, attention, praise, and boundaries quickly become absorbed, gender roles entrenched, and expectations set. For example, girls were (and are) expected to take part in household tasks like setting the table while boys went out to play (back in the good ol’ days before endless scrolling.) Yet, how many of you actually felt something deep within when you wanted to be the one who helped mommy? The person she smiled at and said “Very good!” to? 

How much did you want to be the little helper?

How good did it feel when you saw how happy she was when you helped?

Those feelings are usually hushed in boys during childhood while traits that are more aggressive are centered. Do you remember having any moments in your childhood where something you said or did that was entrenched in kindness, gentleness, or sweet was seen as soft?

Were you ever mocked, made fun of, or ridiculed for saying or doing something the other boys around you found “like a girl” or some other feminine-linked stereotypical comment that made you feel like the parts of you that wanted to give were “soft”?

Well, love to break it to you, masculinity that doesn’t shy away from submission but instead embraces it, is what helps reprogramming that. As it turns out, those soft parts are what makes a man have direction while the lack thereof causes a rise in herd mentality.

It’s very similar to Plato’s cave. 

One caveman gets out, his eyes hurt, seeing the sun and his actual environment causes shock, contemplation, new feelings, ideas, etc. When he returns to the cave to tell the others they mock him–how could he be so stupid to think that he had seen things they never had? Since his pupils are no longer adjusted to the dark, they assume his sight is ruined. That is modern (flawed) masculinity in a nutshell. When a man leans into his submission, the cave of incels instantly erupts with mockery–how could a man want to be gentle, generous, submissive, giving, and observant of Women while the herd finds it easier to circle jerk and reduce Women to nothing? 

Boys are taught that the cave is safer than real expression and (true) submission based integrative masculine connection. 

Yet that is the exact thing that is needed to reclaim the pleasure that comes with service oriented masculinity–where that need to serve, protect, give, be useful, and helpful all bring a man back to the parts of the original self that were shelved to be more societally palatable and congruent with being “a man”.

Boys are taught that the cave is safer than real expression and (true) submission-based- integrative masculinity because it challenges power structures. 

The cave requires that a helpful and kind boy learns to exploit boyhood to be accepted back into the group. 

Yet the cave isn’t a real place. Pretending to be of service only gets one so far and it’s usually laden with emptiness and self repression. 

Mentally reprogramming helps you. Me uncovering and restructuring you, helps form you. 

you’re a submissive stuck in the marble– a Michaelangel’esque feat I get to chisel at when you bow at My feet, My words, My hypnotic voice and tribute for the privilege of My counsel and existence.

Submission wasn’t evoked in you purposelessly. Did you really think so?

It’s time to give it purpose.

Listen to My latest hypnotic audio Sensual Surrender Pt. 1

https://www.loyalfans.com/audio-store/audio/sensual-surrender-pt-1-your-return-1786368074584

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Goddess Gia

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